Saturday, 31 December 2011

Change

Life is so amazing that it can make you wonder where it will lead. An unpredictable flow of time with strangers all around you. You meet them and they meet you but nobody knows when you will meet again. May be today or tomorrow or even never! And we do not bother much about it unless we meet someone who is stranger but still familiar. You sometimes doubt your own memory and try to recall when you met that person. S/he will attract you and curiosity will lead you to make the move. This will remain for a while and then it will become casual. May be after some times you will never meet each other.
But between that time period, a lot would have been happened with you. You will be a new person. An evolution, that's what braniacs call it. Unknowingly we accept this change and act like we are enjoying this different life. Everything seems to be so happening like a dream and we keep on dreaming. I know change is good but not all "change". People say you have changed but they don't bother why and how. For them either it's good or bad. They may tell you what was wrong with you in past and what is wrong with you now. But they won't tell you what the consequences of that change. The very called "wrong" thing may be good for you. That's why never drop anything behind specially small stuffs. Instead of changing yourself try to evolve.
Keeping those all stuffs that really belongs you is also a part of evolution. Evolution never ask you to leave anything behind you but rather increase your span to capture everything that comes in your way. All those small things that make you smile, all those bad habits for what you might have been punished, all the funny things that made you laugh even in the darkest time of you life will keep you connected to the roots of your origin. Leaving them behind for a better future will not lead you to a new life but waste of your whole life.
Even people differentiate with their rejection. They keep a few things and leave other ones just to make room for new ones. That's okay for me. Can anyone tell me what to retain and what to leave behind? I guess no one can answer this or may be you only. You are one who have to decide what shall come with you and what shall not. Still you ask other for hint. You ask them to help you to take your decision in hope that they will guide you to something better.Or may be you want someone to blame if anything goes wrong. I won't argue more about it. But do we really realise what we have become and we were. Some may say that leaving in past is waste of time but is it really so then why do we think more about past? Leave it anyways.
As another year has gone I thought to recall some memories of my past and share them with everyone around me..........